As a 19 year old girl, have I done enough ual stuff with guys to not be considered a loser.. am I normal?

I haven't had real . I haven't even had a boyfriend I have been on a lot of dates and made out with like 4 guys, I gave one a b j and I really liked him I thought he liked me too but he was so mean to me. I got f***ered but some guy I met in a club, he was nice and told me I was really pretty.. I guess I am pretty gullible. I just don't want to be a loser because most 19 year olds have had real .. and i haven't and its embarring. And I know the whole club thing was not ok... but it happened fast he just kinda did it... it hurt a lot too.